A State of Unchangeable Bliss

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A State of Unchangeable Bliss Recently a series of events could have really sent me off into anger and fear. When I told my children what had suddenly transpired, my son’s reaction was “Congratulations Mom”. Congratulations?? "Yes, now you can do what you really want to do"  I asked him if he was worried in any way. He said “With you Mom, no way. This is going to be fun” What an endorsement! Then I went to my daughter’s room. Her comment to me was “You have « Continue »

Is Your ‘Strength’ Limiting Your Possibility?

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Is Your 'Strength' Limiting Your Possibility? My daughter told me of her 'plans' to have twin girls and twin boys and take them to the park everyday in her bike carrier. One day she would take the girls, and the next day she would take the boys. It sounded like a good plan until I asked her why she couldn’t take them all. She gave me a quizzical look that said “How is that possible?” It was then that I realized that she had never factored having a partner in her life. She « Continue »

A Love Letter to Myself

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Valentine's Day is always a contemplative day for me. On this day six years ago my marriage came to an end and my new life began. So, on this day, reflections on love, life and my relationship to it always brings some quiet contemplation. I asked myself whether I am lamenting about not having a partner to share my life with and I keep coming up with ‘no’. I would enjoy being with another who was of like values but, I am not lonely. Almost never do I feel lonely although there are times « Continue »

Welcome Lovely One…

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Wanna know what I think the hottest ticket in town is? What the most potent way to reach spiritual heights is? What the most desirable quality is in a person? The ability to speak and be TRUTH. Truth as I see it is... Transcendent Real Universal Transformative Hot! ... seriously, truth is purr-kitty sexy! Enjoy my various musings... they are irregularly published and timeless in it's content. I'm glad you are here...   « Continue »

Joy is the Meditation

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While I typically acknowledge January 1st as the day of new beginnings and I set out goals and intentions (more from rote habit versus feeeeeeling them) this time, my new year – the new beginning – came to me on December 21, 2012. And… it was completely void of any ‘to do’ list. Let me set the scene… This Christmas season while the children were with their dad for the holidays I decided to do something a little uncharacteristic. Instead of using that time to ‘punch out a « Continue »

Valentine’s Day, Divorce and Truth

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Valentine’s Day – A Day of Endings and Beginnings 5 years ago – exactly on Valentines Day - my marriage came to an abrupt end. It was the day that I knew what I had already known but pretended I didn’t. But now, there was no more pretending. But was it really abrupt? The slow unraveling started some 7 years prior and it felt like there was a jello-like wall between us that was gaining in thickness with each passing year. Each year, each self-development course, each new « Continue »

Conversations with God… and Neale.

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This past week I observed and understood deeper what humility is. And it was delivered in the best way – humility through humor. You’d think I was at a comedy show but I was at Neale Donald Walsch’s Holiday Retreat. Don’t fret if you don’t know who Neale Donald Walsch is… it’s a common affliction. What is more important is that you know the work: Conversations with God. A few years ago when my marriage came to an abrupt end, I was able to stand in the crumbling of « Continue »

I Am FIERCE

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I logged into my infrequently used Twitter account one day and found a flurry of messages congratulating me on my nomination. Nomination for what??? Apparently I had been nominated for a FIERCE Woman Award. I was caught off guard by the nomination…and I was touched that the nomination was in the category most meaningful for me: FIERCE Woman -Mom Extraordinaire. A warm feeling gushed over me and I was surprised by the amount of joy I felt with the nomination. My self worth is not « Continue »

Awesome Thread on the Soul Filled Cafe

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I was asked to be the guest blogger on Heather Gray's Soul Filled Cafe and - W-O-W! The article I wrote sparked a juicy discussion that I want you to be part of... and there were some presents offered too that you can have. Just cuz I love you. Click on the red link below Soul Filled Cafe with Farhana Dhalla       « Continue »

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